The Anxious Overachiever

The Anxious Overachiever

In Favor of Friction

The false promise of "seamless" relationships

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Kathleen Smith
May 20, 2025
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Over a decade ago, Mark Zuckerberg promised Facebook users a “frictionless experience.” Apple has used words like “automatic,” “effortless,” and “seamless” to describe their products over the years.

How has the increased desire for frictionless experiences seeped into our relationships? I recently finished Christine Rosen’s The Extinction of Experience, a slightly depressing but fascinating read.

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