Loved this. It's so easy for me to focus all my efforts on the other. It's like I can't handle the thought that I'm responsible for my own feelings. Thanks for your work.
Do you think that we tend to default towards a desire to change others rather than to change ourselves? If so, why do we do this? Trying to change ourselves is always more effective than trying to change others.
Thank you for outlining this here. Super helpful. Wish I had done more of this in my marriage. For me, too much of ‘doing my own thing’ lead to too much disconnection. I do think it had to if I had been more mindful of some of these tools, I could have fostered our sharing/connection more intentionally. Though Lawd knows I tried!
But it takes two to tango, right?
And it’s a fine balance. I wonder if you’ve written about that?
Thank you for outlining this here. Super helpful. Wish I had done more of this in my marriage, I doubt that too much ‘doing my own thing’ lead to too much disconnection. I do t think it had to if I had been more mindful of some of these tools.
And it’s a fine balance. I wonder if you’ve written about that?
Loved this. It's so easy for me to focus all my efforts on the other. It's like I can't handle the thought that I'm responsible for my own feelings. Thanks for your work.
Do you think that we tend to default towards a desire to change others rather than to change ourselves? If so, why do we do this? Trying to change ourselves is always more effective than trying to change others.
Thank you for outlining this here. Super helpful. Wish I had done more of this in my marriage. For me, too much of ‘doing my own thing’ lead to too much disconnection. I do think it had to if I had been more mindful of some of these tools, I could have fostered our sharing/connection more intentionally. Though Lawd knows I tried!
But it takes two to tango, right?
And it’s a fine balance. I wonder if you’ve written about that?
Thank you for outlining this here. Super helpful. Wish I had done more of this in my marriage, I doubt that too much ‘doing my own thing’ lead to too much disconnection. I do t think it had to if I had been more mindful of some of these tools.
And it’s a fine balance. I wonder if you’ve written about that?