This is so helpful right now. Went down a rabbit hole of your posts, so many good ones. This one spoke to me.
I’m currently going through a separation with my wife. I don’t want this to happen and don’t fully understand why it is happening. I think one thing that happened was around this idea of over functioning for someone else. I spent many of our 12 years together trying to change her. I did learn that I have never given her enough space emotionally and physically. I think it all relates.
PS: I have a therapist and support network. I will adapt!
This one is gold.
Thank you! :D
This is so helpful right now. Went down a rabbit hole of your posts, so many good ones. This one spoke to me.
I’m currently going through a separation with my wife. I don’t want this to happen and don’t fully understand why it is happening. I think one thing that happened was around this idea of over functioning for someone else. I spent many of our 12 years together trying to change her. I did learn that I have never given her enough space emotionally and physically. I think it all relates.
PS: I have a therapist and support network. I will adapt!