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When Someone Won't Stop Worrying Out Loud
A question from a subscriber.
Aug 11
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Kathleen Smith
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Turning Off Your Anxious Scanner
Relating to people without monitoring them.
Aug 6
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Kathleen Smith
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How We End Up Allergic to Closeness
Interrupting the cycle of closeness, conflict, and distance in relationships
Aug 1
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Kathleen Smith
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How We End Up Allergic to Closeness
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July 2025
Blame Is a Giant Penguin
But we can learn to move without it.
Jul 21
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Kathleen Smith
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Why Bad Definitions of Success Stick To Us
And how you learn to shake them off.
Jul 15
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Kathleen Smith
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Not Everything Has to Be Discussed
Are you talking about your feelings to manage tension?
Jul 10
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Kathleen Smith
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Why We're So Allergic to Being Managed
And why our efforts to direct others often backfire.
Jul 1
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Kathleen Smith
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June 2025
10 Questions for the Middle of the Year
Where has your energy gone, and where do you want it to go?
Jun 26
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Kathleen Smith
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Want to stir things up? Move towards someone.
How contact teaches us something about our relationships.
Jun 20
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Kathleen Smith
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Staying Smart When Others Are Anxious
Responding to the ideas, not the intensity.
Jun 9
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Kathleen Smith
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Here's One for the Impatient Folks
How boredom can help us move towards ourselves.
Jun 4
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Kathleen Smith
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May 2025
Your Relationships Aren't a To-Do List
How people get interested in good contact
May 30
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Kathleen Smith
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