The Anxious Overachiever

The Anxious Overachiever

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Loving Our Children by Giving Them Space to Grow
An interview with Dr. Jenny Brown
Jun 12 • Kathleen Smith
Are You Overfunctioning in Your Marriage?
5 questions to get you thinking.
Jun 10 • Kathleen Smith
Stop Teaching People How to Relate to You
Because it's probably not working.
Jun 5 • Kathleen Smith
Could Anxiety Help Your Relationships?
Getting ready to do a thing.
Jun 2 • Kathleen Smith

May 2026

Who's Allowed to Get Interested in Their Challenges?
How your own certainty shuts down other people's thinking.
May 29 • Kathleen Smith
What Does an Anxious Child Focus Look Like?
Medieval art may have some clues.
May 28 • Kathleen Smith
No One Has to Grow Up for You to Calm Down
What are you doing with your work anxiety?
May 21 • Kathleen Smith
The People Who Get the Most Out of Therapy
When it comes to your relationships, how much of an experimenter’s spirit do you have?
May 19 • Kathleen Smith
Do Your Goals Need More Constraints?
Why too much freedom can keep us stuck.
May 14 • Kathleen Smith
The Growing Temptation of Cognitive Surrender
Are you offloading anxiety and downloading solutions?
May 12 • Kathleen Smith
The Claustrophobia of an Anxious Child Focus
Untangling our wellbeing from those we love.
May 7 • Kathleen Smith
There's No Nutrition in Downward Comparison
Propping ourselves up with other people's setbacks.
May 6 • Kathleen Smith
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