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Want to stir things up? Move towards someone.
How contact teaches us something about our relationships.
17 hrs ago
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Kathleen Smith
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Want to stir things up? Move towards someone.
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Staying Smart When Others Are Anxious
Responding to the ideas, not the intensity.
Jun 9
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Kathleen Smith
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Here's One for the Impatient Folks
How boredom can help us move towards ourselves.
Jun 4
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Kathleen Smith
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Here's One for the Impatient Folks
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May 2025
Your Relationships Aren't a To-Do List
How people get interested in good contact
May 30
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Kathleen Smith
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Your Relationships Aren't a To-Do List
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In Favor of Friction
The false promise of "seamless" relationships
May 20
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Kathleen Smith
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In Favor of Friction
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Have You Considered that People Are Capable?
Relating to people's strengths rather than their sensitivity.
May 14
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Kathleen Smith
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Have You Considered that People Are Capable?
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Becoming Less Allergic to the Reactivity in Others
How neutrality changes the relationship equation
May 8
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Kathleen Smith
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April 2025
The Hidden Tension Behind Your Talking
Are you saying something, or are you managing something?
Apr 30
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Kathleen Smith
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The Hidden Tension Behind Your Talking
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Where People Put the Problem
And how they begin to function better.
Apr 21
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Kathleen Smith
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Where People Put the Problem
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Seeing Yourself as an Outsider
How your perception of closeness and distance can get you into trouble.
Apr 18
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Kathleen Smith
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Is There Anything Else On the Menu?
Finding and choosing new moves in relationship challenges.
Apr 2
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Kathleen Smith
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March 2025
Maybe You Don't Need That Little Relationship Treat
Are you putting pressure on others to make you feel good and function better?
Mar 27
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Kathleen Smith
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Maybe You Don't Need That Little Relationship Treat
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